Oxballs Ballbender Ball Stretcher and Cock Ring

Today I’m taking a look at the last of four different Oxballs ball stretchers I tested for Peepshow Toys. Wrapping up this feature is the Oxballs Ballbender Cock Ring and Ball Stretcher, another squishy, stretchy platinum silicone piece for your cock and balls.

Want to see how it compares with the other gear I’ve reviewed from Oxballs? Check out the to the other reviews at the bottom of this one. The great thing about all of these Oxballs stretchers is that they can easily be paired with each other, if and when you reach a point where a single stretcher just isn’t thick enough. While researching many of the pieces, I’ve seen posts on Twitter (like this one) showing low-hanging nuts sporting two stretchers stacked one on top of the other for an even longer stretch. I’m not saying every ball stretching beginner is going to be piling them on, but it’s nice to know that you have the option if your ball stretching game reaches the point where a single one just isn’t enough. But anyhow…let’s take a closer look at the Ballbender.

Unlike the other Oxballs gear I’ve been reviewing, the Ballbender is a little different in design. You can probably guess how it got its name, given that it curves about 45° through the middle and looks a lot like a pipe elbow. The stretcher has two thick outer rims at the top and bottom, and reminds me a lot of those connected metal cock-and-ball rings of yesteryear, the type where one ring wraps around the root of your cock and the other fits between the underside of the dick and the top of the nuts. The Ballbender is different than that because there is — between the thicker rims — a silicone connector between each end, creating an single solid piece. Unlike solid metal, however, this piece of cock-and-ball gear will stretch and pull, making it easier to put on and take off. This ring has a weight of 2.25 ounces, so it’s probably going to be more comfortable than heavy (in case you were looking for a stretcher with a little weight to it).

The Oxballs Ballbender, close-up

Because of its shape, the Ballbender is a little hard to pin down, measurements-wise. It’s got an outer diameter of 2.25″ and an inner diameter of 1⅛ inches. Since it curves down to nearly nothing in the front, the length here is only ⅝” but spreads to a length of 2″ along the back. Unlike most ball stretchers, the difference in dimensions means the Ballbender won’t wrap around your ball sac in the same way a stretcher of more uniform proportions would (see the sidebar for Oxballs stretchers that offer a consistent length all around). Instead, the curve works as a sort of “push-up bra” for your balls, or — more accurately — push out. That’s right: the Ballbender will press against the top of your nuts and push them forward.

There are a few reasons for wanting to do this. First of all, it feels rather nice to have this ring tugging and pushing on your balls. With the nuts thrust forward, it shows them off. Even if you’re wearing tight pants or just a jockstrap or underwear, your bulge is going to look more impressive with your balls pushed out and forward. If you like to fondle or stroke your own balls during masturbation, the Ballbender shoves them forward and tightens everything up, moving them to the front for easy access. If you enjoy ball play during sex, strap on the Ballbender and allow your playmate(s) to tease, rub, lick or suck on them. There’s always something about wearing a device like this that makes the balls more sensitive to erotic stimulation.

Unlike the longer/thicker Oxballs stretchers, the shape of the Ballbender allows it to be worn in two different ways. You can wear it around the ball sac just like you would any other stretcher, and this will not only pull down on your nuts, but curve them to the front (or back, depending on which direction you position the ring). Enjoy being face-down for some assplay with a playmate? Try wearing the Ballbender curved back toward your ass. This will pulls your nuts to the back, for easy access while your sex partner has some fun back there. For myself, I preferred to fit the strap on like a traditional cock ring, placing the upper ring around the root of my cock and allowing the second ring to rest on top of my balls. Worn in this way, the Ballbender works great as a cock ring (for easier/longer/harder erections) but still shoves the balls forward. The Ballbender certainly pairs nicely with the new swimmer’s jockstrap I just obtained, packing the already-snug mesh pouch with an even bigger bulge. Like all of the platinum silicone stretchers from Oxballs, the material is so soft and comfortable, you can easily leave the stretcher on for longer periods of time, which I could never do with leather ball straps. I’d never even consider trying to work my balls through a solid metal ball stretcher, so this silicone stuff is a great option.

The silicone makes it way easier to pull on and tug off. If the stretcher starts to feel uncomfortable after awhile, just work your fingers under the ring(s) and adjust things or remove it totally. Since the Oxballs stretchers are compatible with any lubricant, grease up your new stretcher with a little bit of lube to help make it easier to pull on or off, which will also give you more stimulation while working your cock and balls over. If your Ballbender is a mess with lube and other fluids when you’re all through, just scrub it clean with some hot water and soap. Allow it to dry completely before storing it. If your skin is sensitive to other types of materials that are used in the manufacture of cock rings and ball stretchers, silicone is a friendlier material you should be trying. Silicone items, when properly cared for and stored, will last a long longer too. I can’t count how many rubber/jelly/TPE cock rings and ball tuggers I’ve tossed over the years because they’ve become mishapen, torn, or just plain foul smelling from the weird chemicals used to make them.

The Ballbender ended up being one of my favorites of all the Oxballs stretchers I’ve tried recently. It’s so comfortable I’d easily recommend it to beginners, especially if you’re wanting to try ball stretching for the first time but want to start out with a piece of gear that is easy to put on, isn’t too snug around your ball sac, and doesn’t stretch your nuts too severely overall. It’s definitely fun for anyone who wants to fatten their bulge, too. Want to add this ball stretcher/cock ring to your collection? Find it in black silicone at Peepshow Toys, using the following link:

Oxballs Ballbender Cock Ring & Ball Stretcher

Be sure to check out my reviews for the other Oxballs ball stretchers Peepshow Toys stocks:

If you like the silicone used in the Oxballs stretchers and rings, maybe try one of the Oxballs Butt Plugs, featuring the same high-quality material. While you’re shopping at Peepshow Toys, take a look at their assortment of body-friendly lubricants and check out some of the other fun sex toys you can use while geared up in your new Oxballs stretcher. How about a new masturbator, pump, or prostate massager? Remember to use the coupon code allmalesextoys at checkout to save 10% off your order.

Product photo from Peepshow Toys

FTC Notice: The Oxballs Ballbender Cock Ring and Ball Stretcher was provided free of charge by Peepshow Toys in exchange for an unbiased review.